Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Mercy

I was reminded by one of my sister's Instagram photos today that 1 YEAR ago today I ran in my first 5k. Most of my friends run  half-marathon's/marathons so this isn't really a big accomplishment, but it wasn't how far I was running that mattered but what I was running FOR. I ran to support girls in crisis situations that are looking to the Lord for healing and redemption in their lives. I ran to support Mercy Ministries, an organization passionately devoted to helping bring wholeness to young women battling with some of the junk that just comes with life. Here's a brief statement that I took off of their website that goes a little bit more in depth to their mission...

"Mercy Ministries’ free-of-charge, voluntary, faith-based residential program serves young women from all socio-economic backgrounds, ages 13-28, who face a combination of life-controlling issues such as eating disorders, self-harm, drug and alcohol addictions, depression and unplanned pregnancy. Mercy also serves young women who have been physically and sexually abused, including victims of sex trafficking. Using proven methods, a holistic approach and professional counselors in a structured residential environment, Mercy has helped thousands of young women be restored to wholeness. Mercy’s goal is to help these young women find freedom from their issues and empower them to serve in their communities as productive citizens."


By the grace of God, last year we were able to raise over $600 for Mercy which was $100 over our original goal. Thank you to everyone who supported because not only were you supporting Mercy, you were supporting ME. It's so easy for girls that have a similar story as me to feel like an outcast. To feel like nobody is on their side, and last year it meant the world to me to have so much love and support coming from almost everyone I know. My story isn't one I typically talk about because it's just so draining to talk about... physically and emotionally. But what I know is that I've had so many one-on-one conversations with younger girls that hopefully I've been able to help or encourage in some way. Our Louisville pastor also told me last year that he was able to share my story at a CIY conference and had many girls respond and start speaking with youth leaders and counselors about what was happening in their lives. I wish I could have been there to talk to them... to tell them it gets better because it does. Mercy is an awesome ministry and there are always ways to support them prayerfully or financially. I may run another 5k in the future to help raise money, but for now consider giving by clicking on this link. I'm going to repost my support letter from last year below if you haven't heard my story or want to hear about how Mercy has impacted my life and the lives of so many others. Together we can make a difference... one person at a time.  
My biggest supporters... Love you all!


To my friends and family, 
         As I reflect over the first 8 ½ months of 2012, I realize how blessed I am to have experienced so many new and life-changing events. In the spring I completed 15 weeks of student teaching followed by a two week teaching trip to Belize followed by graduating from COLLEGE and vacationing in the beautiful state of Wyoming. Not to forget packing up our beautiful apartment and moving 90 miles north, near the bustling city of Cincinnati. After a “man trip” to Alaska in March, Alex was promoted and given his own Finish Line store to manage, a tribute to the hard work he put in for a year and a half at his store in Indiana.
         When I put it all together, I am just so thankful for everything God has blessed us with and all the memories he has allowed us to create together as a new family. If you had asked me a little over one year ago today, what our life would be like in this moment, I couldn’t have even come close to reality.
         The truth is, one year ago we were kind of in a rough spot. Experiences from my past were interfering with our present and I knew that I needed healing and peace that could only come from the Lord in order to wholly move forward with my life. Only a handful of people even knew about the rape I had experienced as a college freshman, and I was bound to keep it that way. The less people that had to know, the better.
         After trying to deal with it on my own for four years, I knew I needed to rid myself of all distractions and seek the healing that I trusted the Lord to provide. Mercy Ministries was a part of that healing process for me. Mercy is a Christian organization that provides residency, biblical counseling and support for young women choosing to deal with tough issues that they are experiencing in their lives. They have four campuses, which are located in Tennessee, Missouri, Louisiana and California. Each girl goes through a voluntary but very lengthy interview process in order to be admitted into one of the Mercy homes. After doing some research, talking to a past resident and going to the Lord in prayer, I knew that Mercy was where I needed to be.
         It took a lot for me to swallow my pride and admit that I couldn’t do it on my own anymore and that I needed help. Even harder was the decision to leave my new husband for six months. What young bride envisions that for her marriage? Thankfully Alex was 100% supportive and promised to be there for me every step of the way. He was my family now and wanted what was best for me, and more importantly, for us.
         After weeks of filling out forms, sending in medical records and completing homework assignments, I finally had my phone interview, the last step before placement into a Mercy home. The interview went great and it was finally time to come clean to my friends and family that I wouldn’t be there for the fall semester; that I wouldn’t be graduating in the spring; that I wouldn’t be there for my 22nd birthday, Thanksgiving or Christmas. Those conversations were the hardest. Not only were some people hearing my story for the very first time {as some of you are now}, but everything about our friendships was changing. How close of a friendship do you have when you don’t know some of the most important chapters in someone’s life? Those relationships were definitely being re-evaluated.
         Well I got the courage to tell the ladies group from church what was going on, and it was the most nerve-racking yet beautiful moment to have all my guards down and to see them wrap their arms around me in love and support. After that, sharing my story became a little easier each time I shared it with others. I now had accountability and a wonderful church family that was mindful in helping me heal. I quickly realized that with this community surrounding me, a community drive by faithfulness to the Lord, and having mine {and Alex’s} well-being at heart, maybe I didn’t need to leave after all. Maybe I didn’t need a Mercy residence but simply mercy from those closest to me. And that is exactly what I received. My Avenue church family sent checks to pay for biblical counseling even though I could have received free counseling at UofL. They understood the vital need of receiving healing from Jesus rather than from the sources recommended through secular counseling.
         Because of what they did for me, I can joyfully say that the Lord has 100% healed my heart and has begun to restore and redeem those days, months and years that I lost to fear, insecurity, anger and hate. One way that I am choosing to praise Him through all of this is by running in my first ever 5K on October 20th. The 5K is in Nashville and it is called the Run for Mercy, put on by the Mercy Ministries foundation.
         While I never attended Mercy as a resident, Mercy played a huge part in my overcoming the silence of talking about what happened to me. Because Mercy had doors ready and waiting, I had the courage to apply and raise my voice a little louder. Mercy will always hold a special place in my heart and although I absolutely HATE running, I am willing to run for mercy. I am willing to run for other girls who in the future, or even right now, are feeling completely overwhelmed by the circumstances of their lives or the choices they have made. The girls at Mercy are truly seeking the Lord’s healing and redemptive power in their lives, and I am so grateful that I can be a part of that healing, no matter how big or small.
         The Run for Mercy is on October 20th in Nashville, and I am looking for others who might want to join my team. The cost is $30.00 to register to run/walk on my team {McCall’s for Mercy}. If you are unable to participate in Nashville, there are also races in other US cities that you can check out at MercyMinistries.org or you could help Alex and I meet our fundraising goal of $500.00 by making a monetary donation of any amount. Any gift would be greatly appreciated and would directly help support the ministry and the girls receiving services and care by the Mercy staff.
         If you are unable to make a donation, I ask for your prayers: for me, my family, Mercy Ministries and the girls that live (or will live) in one of the Mercy homes. Our God is great, and never forget that his mercies are new every morning (Lam. 3:23). Thank you for joining me on my run for mercy.

                                                      Sincerely,
                                                         Briana McCall 
                                                   { McCall’s for Mercy }



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